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3 Brides & 3 Babies

It’s the day after Mother’s and so we wanted to celebrate some moms. Even though we all love the battle-tested, seen-it-all moms, we thought it would be great to hear from some first-time, brand spanking new moms.

We found 3 Brides who have had babies recently, or are pregnant, from the catalog of our sister company, Zandolee Media, and asked them a few questions.

3 QUESTIONS:

What’s the Scariest thing about having a baby right now?
What do you feel is the most fulfilling part of having a baby?
And, what have you found to be the most pleasant surprise?

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6 Romance Films Even he Will Love

You and your partner may not always agree on movie genres, but you both know you’re tired of searching aimlessly through Netflix. Sometimes you just crave a film to satisfy the romantic in you, and there’s nothing like the pleasure of finding a movie that you can both snuggle up and watch. Next time you run out of shows to binge-watch, try one of these movies together, listed from newest to oldest:

Silver Linings Playbook (2012)

Why you will like it: This film tells an complex, tension-filled story that deals with romance, mental health, and a lot of other pieces of a relationship that makes us human.

Why he will like it: No one can say no to a movie with Jennifer Lawrence and Bradley Cooper. If he’s not convinced, remind him he’s the guy in American Sniper, Limitless, and The Hangover.

Knight and Day (2010)

Why you will love it: We’ll never complain about a movie that unites Cameron Diaz and Tom Cruise. If you’re not up for the emotional investment of an all-out romance, this one is perfect.

Why he will like it: Funny, fast-paced, and light-hearted, with enough car chases to keep you both happy.

Hitch (2005)

Why you will like it: Will Smith plays the role of a professional “date doctor.” What could be better than watching Will Smith teach other guys to talk to women?

Why he will like it: Enough comedy to make him forget this is a romance. Also, Will Smith.

Sleepless in Seattle (1993)

Why you will like it: Another one that’s worth watching again (and again). This story is unique and endearing and a refreshing break from the teen flings we’re used to seeing in new romance movies. Plus, we’re never opposed to Tom Hanks.

Why he will like it: This endearing film will warm his heart, even if he won’t admit it, and appeal to the old soul in everyone. It’s entertaining, heart-warming, and funny.

Princess Bride (1987)

Why you will like it: Even if you’ve already seen this one, it’s worth a re-watch. It’s always fun to quote along with the movie.

Why he will like it: We all love the blend of action and romance in this classic. Even if he’s all for realistic action scenes, he can’t pretend the duel between Wesley and Inigo Montoya isn’t 10/10.

Annie Hall (1977)

Why you will like it: This one’s old enough to be refreshing and nostalgic without going B&W. A charming balance of humor and romance that’s somehow still sobering.

Why he will like it: This film is amusing and entertaining, and Woody Allen will almost make him forget this is a romance.

Alison Schneider

Ali Schneider is the editor of Waking Up Married and a freelance writer from St. Paul, Minnesota. She considers herself a vintage-style millennial. In 2017, she graduated from the University of Northwestern—St. Paul with an English Writing degree and a minor addiction to caffeine and travel. She fits most of the authorial stereotypes and plans to reach this conventional peak one day by writing novels from a cabin in the MN Northwoods.

6 Things Your Mother-in-Law Wants to Tell You

Maybe you dread those intense conversations, the ones where you have to talk about more than your weekend plans or the weather. Maybe you just don’t get around to discussing the deeper things in life. We all have things we wish we could understand about our in-laws, but sometimes we just don’t have the conversations to figure them out. Whether or not you’re close with your mother-in-law, these are six things she probably wants you to know.

“I’m still his mother.” She doesn’t stop being his mother when you’re married. She doesn’t stop loving him like a son. Of course, her relationship with her son has changed and will continue to change now that he’s married to you. But that process isn’t quick and easy. It requires patience and care to attain to the balance of a mother whose son now belongs to someone else—you.
“I want to share my experience and wisdom with you.” Believe it or not, she cares about the quality of your relationship with her son. It’s not all about power and control (although it may look that way). She wants to share her knowledge of her son and keys to a healthy relationship together. She wants you to listen to her stories, understand her point of view, and help you learn a thing or two from it.
“Don’t put me in the middle.” Of course she doesn’t want to be pushed to the sidelines of a relationship with her son (and now you.) But she understands that the two of you have to work things out between yourselves. She can’t be the mediator or the one he (or you) runs to when you encounter issues.
“Don’t expect my son to be perfect. Trust me, he’s not.” If anyone has seen the good, the bad, and the ugly sides of your husband, it’s the woman who watched him grow into the man you love today. She can be a gentle reminder that he doesn’t always wake up on the right side of the bed, and that’s ok.
“Remember, I’m a real person.” The word “in-law,” tends to dehumanize people. But a mother-in-law is more than a potentially awkward holiday encounter. Getting to know someone who’s behavior and lifestyle is so different from yours is always a challenge—for both of you. Be willing to get to know her, and remember, just like any relationship, it takes time.
“Yes, we’re family.” No, you don’t have to call her “Mom.” You don’t have to understand the reason she does what she does. You don’t have to have anything in common. Just remember, you have one thing in common, and he makes both of you very happy. (this gift says it all)